Parents pushing you to study a major you don’t like? Here’s how to find a solution together, SPU style.

Facing a classic problem… Do you want to study one thing while your parents want you to study another? Don’t worry! This is a common situation, but choosing your future is a big deal. Communicating to find a common solution is key. Today, we’re sharing creative conversation techniques in the SPU style, focusing on reason and data to build understanding and find a solution that makes everyone happy.

Why is communicating about your major important?

Choosing a major isn’t just about 4 years of study; it’s about laying the foundation for a lifelong career. Studying something that doesn’t make you happy can lead to burnout, dropping out, or graduating and not working in that field. Opening up and talking is the best way to reduce conflict and help your parents understand your goals and passions, leading to better long-term support.

4 steps to clear the air, Sripatum University style

• 1. Have your data ready: This is the most important first step! Research your desired major/field deeply, including the curriculum, job opportunities, salary rates, and future trends. Compare the pros and cons with the major your parents want. Having solid information makes you look responsible and credible.
• 2. Choose the right time and atmosphere: Don’t bring it up when everyone is tired or in a bad mood. Try a relaxed time when no one is in a rush, like after dinner on a weekend. Invite them to talk in a friendly atmosphere free from distractions.
• 3. Present with reason, not emotion: Start by thanking them for caring about your future. Then, gradually present your prepared information systematically. Explain why you’re interested in this major, how it will build on your skills, and what your plans for the future are. Finding your identity and the right major is vital for your success.
• 4. Find common ground and offer solutions: Try to understand their concerns. They might be worried about job stability. Look for solutions together, such as inviting them to an Open House at Sripatum University to see the atmosphere and talk to professors directly, or offer a backup plan to reassure them.

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